tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6901280567507595427.post6177538481200374955..comments2023-04-11T04:36:30.190-07:00Comments on whichwaydidshego: Boys to men.whichwaydidshegohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17503572447021232945noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6901280567507595427.post-68484705509662801442010-01-28T02:00:50.184-08:002010-01-28T02:00:50.184-08:00Wow, Lori - you have something really precious and...Wow, Lori - you have something really precious and special. Treasure it, for sure. I'm really happy for you. The poetry thing is pretty great, I have to say!whichwaydidshegohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17503572447021232945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6901280567507595427.post-74571776090306335942010-01-26T04:45:51.099-08:002010-01-26T04:45:51.099-08:00Sometimes I'll catch myself getting caught up ...Sometimes I'll catch myself getting caught up on the details with him. We talk all day long by text. We have amazing communication and talk for hours if we get on the phone. He wakes me up with poems and tells me good night (unless he passes out from exhaustion). We love each other. I try to focus on that rather than the possibility of one of us ever moving halfway across the country so we can be together. It's hard but I wouldn't trade him.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06584618837353757502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6901280567507595427.post-20774845905723349652010-01-20T14:28:37.127-08:002010-01-20T14:28:37.127-08:00Yes, well with this new thing with Toughguy, whate...Yes, well with this new thing with Toughguy, whatever it might be or become, we talk FOR-E-VER on the phone. One call lasted - not exaggerating here - 12 hours. That's some good communication. Now if we could only get some... OTHER kinds of communication going!<br /><br />And as to Bookboy, he used to WANT me to call him my boytoy. Think that defined the "relationship" part of things between us fairly well. (Like I said, still adore him AS A FRIEND.)whichwaydidshegohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17503572447021232945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6901280567507595427.post-1591016021057852242010-01-20T05:02:24.019-08:002010-01-20T05:02:24.019-08:00I've run into a similar situation. The last g...I've run into a similar situation. The last guy I dated was 2 years younger. My current...it's complicated because we're more than friends but he's so far away we don't really know what it would mean to be in a relationship...guy is actually 4 years older than me. It's really amazing how those few years make a huge difference in male development!<br /><br />Anyway, best of luck with your new guy. And appreciate your pink shirt for what it was--a recognition of a different style of humor by your ex.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06584618837353757502noreply@blogger.com